Take yourself out on one of these fun solo date ideas

“You cannot be lonely if you like the person you’re alone with.”

— Wayne Dyer

When was the last time you truly enjoyed your own company? I will admit, as I write this post from a solo vacation in Honduras, that it can be easy to forget the beauty of solitude in a world that seems to prioritize togetherness.

Taking yourself out is a great way to grow your self-love and learn to enjoy your own company. Whether you’re looking to recharge, explore new horizons, or simply enjoy some alone, self-dating can be the perfect way to honor yourself.

To inspire your next adventure, here are 101 creative and fun solo date ideas that cater to every mood and interest.

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HERE ARE 101 FUN SOLO DATE IDEAS:

SELF-Date Ideas FOR WHEN YOU’RE FEELING ARTSY:

1. Visit a local art museum or go gallery-hopping

2. Take a hand-building or wheel throwing pottery class at a local studio

3. Take a painting or drawing class

4. Write poetry or journal in a cozy cafe

5. Learn calligraphy and create personalized cards

6. Visit a botanical garden and sketch your favorite flowers

7. Build a vision board to manifest your goals and dreams

8. Explore a thrift store and upcycle an item into something unique

9. Try your hand at origami and create intricate paper designs

10. Design and make your own jewelry

11. Attend a live theater performance or musical

12. Take yourself to a movie, complete with popcorn

13. Check out a local comedy show

14. Roam around to explore street art and murals in your city

15. Host a mini photoshoot for yourself with a self-timer and creative outfits

Solo Date IdeaS FOR YOUR ADVENTUROUS SIDE:

16. Go on a solo hike to a nearby trail

17. Take a road trip to a town you’ve never visited

18. Try indoor rock climbing or a bouldering gym

19. Rent a kayak or paddleboard and explore a local lake

20. Attend a hot air balloon festival or book a ride

21. Go skydiving

22. Sign up for a zip-lining adventure

23. Explore an amusement park and ride all the thrilling attractions

24. Take a surfing or paddleboarding lesson

25. Ride a bike through scenic countryside or urban paths

26. Spend the day at an aquarium or zoo.

27. Visit an escape room and try the puzzles solo

28. Go to an arcade or try a VR experience at a gaming center

29. Be a tourist in your own city, sign up for a tour, and visit popular attractions

30. Take a train ride just for the scenic journey

31. Go ice or roller skating at a rink

32. Book a flight and go on a solo trip

33. Create a bucket list and commit to your next adventure

SELF-DATING IDEAS WHEN YOU NEED REJUVENATION:

34. Have a picnic in the park

35. Spend the day being cozy and reading your favorite book

36. Indulge in a self-care pampering day with face masks and soothing music

37. Take a long bubble bath with candles and aromatherapy

38. Meditate in a tranquil outdoor setting

39. Practice yoga in a peaceful studio or at home

40. Book a float therapy session for ultimate relaxation

41. Have a movie marathon with your favorite snacks

42. Spend the day getting lost in a hobby you love

43. Dedicate time to work through self-love exercises

44. Have a dance party listening to uplifting music

45. Spend the day at a luxurious spa

Solo Date Ideas for when you want to learn something new:

46. Attend a public lecture or TED-style talk

47. Explore a science or history museum

48. Take a language class online

49. Go to the public library or bookstore and read up on something you’re curious about

50. Visit a planetarium and marvel at the universe

51. Enroll in an online course or workshop (Note: I LOVE Masterclass for this)

52. Watch a documentary on a subject that interests you

53. Tour a historical site or landmark and dive into its history through guided or self-led tours

54. Learn chess or a board by playing against yourself or a computer

55. Try a dance class for a style you’ve never danced before, like salsa, ballet, or contemporary

56. Learn the basics of gardening and try planting flowers, herbs, or vegetables

57. Explore DIY crafting like creating handmade candles, soap, or macramé

58. Learn about wine by attending a solo wine-tasting class or researching pairing techniques

59. Take a public speaking class to build your confidence and refine your communication skills

60. Dive into meditation by attending a daylong silent retreat

Self-Date Ideas for Foodies:

61. Treat yourself to a fancy dinner at a restaurant you’ve always wanted to try

62. Visit a tea house and sample unique blends

63. Explore a local farmer’s market and pick out fresh, unique ingredients

64. Try making a new and challenging recipe

65. Visit a food festival and sample different cuisines

66. Take a coffee-tasting or barista class

67. Have a progressive dinner: appetizers at one place, main course at another, and dessert elsewhere

68. Try making homemade pasta or bread from scratch

69. Go on a solo wine or craft beer tasting

70. Go to an international grocery store and sample new foods and snacks

71. Create a fancy charcuterie board just for yourself

72. Sign up for a cooking class and learn a new cuisine

I took a paella cooking class for a recent self-date

Nature-Inspired Solo Date Ideas:

73. Take a walk on the beach and collect seashells

74. Visit a national park and explore its trails

75. Go birdwatching with a guidebook and binoculars

76. Lie on the grass and stargaze with a cozy blanket

77. Spend a morning fishing by a quiet lake or river

78. Walk through a forest and breathe in the fresh air

79. While the day away at a local park

80. Take a boat ride and enjoy the serenity of the water

81. Go apple or berry picking at a farm

82. Camp solo in a safe, scenic location

83. Photograph nature in your area

84. Watch a sunrise or sunset at a serene location

Fitness-Oriented Self-Dating Ideas:

85. Try a new fitness class like pilates, barre, or zumba (Note: I’m obsessed with Classpass)

86. Go for a run in a picturesque location

87. Take a swim at a local pool, lake or beach

88. Sign up for and train for a local 5K or other race

89. Practice martial arts at a beginner-friendly studio, and realize how strong you are

90. Take a long walk while listening to an audiobook, podcast, or playlist

91. Try tai chi in a tranquil outdoor setting

Seasonal Solo Date Ideas:

92. Build a snowman with fun details and props

93. Go sledding in winter

94. Go for a long snowshoe hike

95. Make hot cocoa and get cozy by a fireplace

96. Make homemade holiday ornaments or gifts

97. Visit a Christmas market or holiday fair

98. Attend an outdoor summer concert or music festival

99. Collect spring flowers or autumn leaves, and press them for keepsakes

100. Go skinny dipping and celebrate your body

101. Decorate cookies for any season

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Solo dates are a wonderful way to celebrate who you are and prioritize self-love. Whether you’re indulging in luxury or keeping things simple, these experiences can enrich your life and deepen your connection with yourself. Which idea will you try first?

Have you ever done any of these self-date ideas? I’d love to hear in the comments! This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase through them, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you. I donate 10% of all proceeds made from this blog to charity. Find out more about the charity I am supporting here.